David G. Montani, Sr.

April 19, 1929 - April 21, 2024

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Obituary for David G. Montani, Sr.

David G. Montani Sr., age 95, of Dennis, formerly of Milton and West Quincy, died peacefully, Sunday, April 21, 2024 in the comfort of his home, surrounded by members of his loving family.

David was born on April 19, 1929, in West Quincy, to the late Frank and Aurora “Irene” (Carella) Montani. Raised and educated in Quincy, he was a graduate of Quincy High School, Class of 1948, where he was an outstanding quarterback and member of the Q.H.S. Football Hall of Fame. He lived in Dennis for thirty years and previously in Milton for thirty-three years.

He began his career as an apprentice at the Fore River Shipyard, working for the Bethlehem Steel Company, where he first demonstrated a great ability to work with his hands and a mind that could envision what needed to be done. He left the shipyard to serve in the U.S. Navy Seabees, Mobile Construction Battalion One, as a Steel Worker 3/c, during the Korean conflict. After his military service, Dave returned to the shipyard to complete his apprenticeship, graduating Valedictorian in 1953.

In 1952, he married Christine Mae Antonelli, daughter of Larry and Josephine Antonelli. Together, Dave and Christine raised ten children, seven boys and three girls. Their years together were filled with the joy of watching their family grow, a marriage of full measure and grace.

Early in his career, Dave joined his father-in-law’s steel business, L. Antonelli Iron Works, leading the fabrication side of the company. From a small operation, the company would grow to become one of the largest steel fabricators and steel erectors in New England. Memorable projects would include the Altar for the 1979 Pope John Paul II visit to Boston, Fenway Park expansions, and the Basketball Hall of Fame.

Pre-deceased by Christine in 1988, Dave found love again and married Mary E. (St. John) McDonald in 1994, adding six step-children and numerous step-grandchildren to his family. Dave and Mary settled in Dennis, wintering in Florida and South Carolina until her death in 2012. They enjoyed visiting their extended family throughout the countryside, attending countless events and accomplishments of grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Dave loved the ocean, the beach, and hosting gatherings at the family’s Cape Cod residence. Never idle, he took on many projects around his home, puttering in his workshop to build personal treasures that ranged from jewelry boxes to book shelves, end tables to coat racks, cribbage boards and beyond. Anything he could dream up from a piece of scrap wood was fair game, as his creations found many a home with family and friends.

Active in community affairs throughout his life, Dave was a member of the Quincy Rotary Club, the American Legion, the Knights of Columbus, and a proud member of the Quincy Lodge of Elks for sixty-seven years. He also served on the board of directors for Catholic Charities of Boston and Fontbonne Academy in Milton.

A devout Catholic, he was a long-time parishioner of Saint Agatha’s Church in Milton and Saint Pius X Parish in Yarmouth. Dave lived a life of faith, family, and work, with extended bonds of love overflowing in all three priorities.

He is survived by his family. Devoted father of David, Jr., Frank, Loretta (Timothy) Porter, Larry (Mary), Daniel (Patricia), Christopher, Theresa, Anthony (Diane), and predeceased by son Michael Montani and daughter Mary Jo Montani.

Step-father of W. Kevin (Joan) McDonald, Susan (Paul) McDonald Osborn , Sean (Jaci) McDonald, William (Mary) McDonald, and pre-deceased by stepdaughter Kathleen McDonald, Diane McDonald Johnston and her husband Mark.

In addition to his fifteen grandchildren, fifteen great grandchildren, twenty-two step grandchildren, and thirteen step great grandchildren, Dave is also survived by many nieces, nephews, in-laws, and extended family members.

The middle child of three siblings, Dave was predeceased by his older brother Albert Montani and his wife Joan, and his younger sister Irene Ciardelli Coombs and her husbands, Chick Ciardelli and George Coombs.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Saint Agatha Church, 432 Adams Street, Milton, on Monday, April 29, at 10:30 a.m. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. Visiting Hours will be held at the Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite Avenue, East Milton Square, on Sunday, April 28, from 2 – 5 p.m. Interment, with military honors, at Milton Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations in David’s memory may be made to The Boston Home, Inc., 2049 Dorchester Avenue, Boston, MA 02124.

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28 Apr

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29 Apr

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10:30 AM - 11:30 AM

Saint Agatha Church 432 Adams Street Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
29 Apr

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11:30 AM

Milton Cemetery 211 Centre Street Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
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  • May 02, 2024

    Loretta and family, I was so sorry to read about the loss of your beloved dad. We were away so I missed the services. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers during this very sad time. Mary Spatola McCourt

  • April 29, 2024

    Dave was a great guy with a wonderful family. When I think of Dave, I just picture him & my Dad sitting on the beach in Dennis having their morning cocktails. Such wonderful memories!

  • April 29, 2024

    We were so sorry to hear of David's passing, we always enjoyed his company, he was a wonderful person and so good to our Aunt Mary. You are all in our prayers John & Sally Welch

  • April 28, 2024

    Condolences to the Montani Family and his extended Family . I meet Dave as a young CPA for the Antonelli Company , he was a special person. I also knew his deceased children Michael and Mary Jo.There is a special place in Heaven for Dave. John Oteri

  • April 27, 2024

    My prayers and deepest sympathy, love and comfort to Theresa and all! My thoughts and prayers are are with you during this sad time! Blessings,dear Theresa! Sr Zita Fleming csj

  • April 25, 2024

    My deepest sympathy. May you take comfort in the amazing life he lived and the memories shared with all of you.

  • April 25, 2024

    Deepest condolences to the Montani family. --Ed Cochran, MCRR, ret.

  • April 25, 2024

    Condolences to his family, fond memories of a good man.

  • April 24, 2024

    May Dave rest in eternal peace. We always enjoyed any chats we had with Dave. He was an amazing man with so many stories. We will miss seeing him drive by on his scooter. Sincere condolences to his family. Joe & Marlene Scala

  • April 24, 2024

    Dan and family, so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Erin Cunningham

  • April 24, 2024

    So sorry for the entire Montani Family. I know he was a wonder dad, grandfather and person to all who knew him. May he rest in peace along side all those who have gone before him.

  • April 24, 2024

    My deepest sympathy to the Montani/McDonald families. Another one of "the great ones" has left us, but let's hope that with the many family members he leaves behind, it's not the last of "great ones". Mr. Montana always had a smile on his face, a tool in his hand, and a story to tell. He always amazed me with the many things he made/built...and you can be sure, if David Montani made it, a tornado wouldn't even ruin it! There's a story behind each item he made. Needless to say, with the clan he had, and with each piece he gave to everyone, his stories will last another 90+ years! A life well lived. May he now rest in peace with those who welcomed him home.

  • April 24, 2024

    Great memories of him & my dad sitting on the beach in Dennis having their afternoon "Tea" God Bless. Julie Biagini

  • April 24, 2024

    Sorry for your loss; I'm not sure I heard it right, but Dave once told me that he and Antonelli Iron Works did the steel work at St Pius; look up and remember the work of his hands. Tom Dixon

  • April 24, 2024

    May deepest condolences to the family You are in our prayers, Ana & Jose Sousa